to slander no one, not to be contentious, to be gentle, showing every consideration for all people.
Parallel translations
- WEB to speak evil of no one, not to be contentious, to be gentle, showing all humility toward all men.
- KJV To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.
- BSB to malign no one, and to be peaceable and gentle, showing full consideration to everyone.
- NKJV to speak evil of no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing all humility to all men.
- NLT They must not slander anyone and must avoid quarreling. Instead, they should be gentle and show true humility to everyone.
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Quick answer
Believers are to slander no one, avoid quarreling, and be gentle and humble toward all people. It matters because Christian conduct toward outsiders should be peaceable and gracious.
Overview
Paul continues describing the believer's public character: free from slander and strife, marked instead by gentleness and humility 'toward all men.' This gracious manner mirrors the kindness God showed us, described in the verses that follow. Such conduct commends the gospel to a watching world.
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- Eph 4:31Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice.
- 2 Tim 2:24–25The Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient,
- Col 3:12–13Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance;
- Eph 4:2with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love;
- 1 Tim 3:3not a drinker, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous;
- 1 Pet 3:10For, “He who would love life, and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil, and his lips from speaking deceit.
- 1 Pet 3:8Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tender hearted, courteous,
- Matt 11:29Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls.
- Gal 5:22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith,
- 1 Pet 2:17–18Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.
- Gal 6:10So then, as we have opportunity, let’s do what is good toward all men, and especially toward those who are of the household of the faith.
- 1 Pet 2:1Putting away therefore all wickedness, all deceit, hypocrisies, envies, and all evil speaking,
- Jas 4:11Don’t speak against one another, brothers. He who speaks against a brother and judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law, but a judge.
- Jas 3:17But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
- 1 Th 5:14–15We exhort you, brothers, admonish the disorderly, encourage the faint-hearted, support the weak, be patient toward all.
- 2 Sam 22:36You have also given me the shield of your salvation. Your gentleness has made me great.
- Jas 1:19–20So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger;
- Ps 140:11An evil speaker won’t be established in the earth. Evil will hunt the violent man to overthrow him.
- Gal 6:1Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted.
- 1 Tim 3:11Their wives in the same way must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things.
- Phil 4:5Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand.
- 1 Th 2:7But we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother cherishes her own children.
- 1 Cor 9:19For though I was free from all, I brought myself under bondage to all, that I might gain the more.
- 2 Cor 10:1Now I Paul, myself, entreat you by the humility and gentleness of Christ; I who in your presence am lowly among you, but being absent am bold toward you.
- Acts 23:5Paul said, “I didn’t know, brothers, that he was high priest. For it is written, ‘You shall not speak evil of a ruler of your people.’”
- Prov 25:24It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than to share a house with a contentious woman.
- Prov 6:19a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers.
- 2 Cor 12:20For I am afraid that by any means, when I come, I might find you not the way I want to, and that I might be found by you as you don’t desire; that by any means there would be strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, slander, whisperings, proud thoughts, riots;
- 1 Cor 6:10nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom.
- 2 Pet 2:10but chiefly those who walk after the flesh in the lust of defilement, and despise authority. Daring, self-willed, they are not afraid to speak evil of dignitaries;
- Isa 40:11He will feed his flock like a shepherd. He will gather the lambs in his arm, and carry them in his bosom. He will gently lead those who have their young.
- 1 Pet 4:4They think it is strange that you don’t run with them into the same excess of riot, blaspheming:
- Jude 1:8Yet in the same way, these also in their dreaming defile the flesh, despise authority, and slander celestial beings.
- Jude 1:10But these speak evil of whatever things they don’t know. They are destroyed in these things that they understand naturally, like the creatures without reason.
- Prov 19:19A hot-tempered man must pay the penalty, for if you rescue him, you must do it again.
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