Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Parallel translations
- WEB Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it;
- BSB Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her
- NKJV Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
- NASB Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her,
- NLT For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her
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Husbands are commanded to love their wives sacrificially, as Christ loved the church and died for it. The husband's role is costly, self-giving love.
Overview
Paul places the heaviest demand on husbands: to love as Christ loved the church, even to the point of giving himself up for her on the cross. This redefines headship as sacrificial service, not self-interest. Christ's atoning love becomes both the measure and the motive for a husband's devotion to his wife.
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- 1 Pet 3:7Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
- Col 3:19Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
- Eph 5:28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
- Gen 2:24Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
- Eph 5:33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
- Eph 5:2And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour.
- Gal 1:4Who gave himself for our sins, that he might deliver us from this present evil world, according to the will of God and our Father:
- Gal 2:20I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.
- Rev 1:5And from Jesus Christ, who is the faithful witness, and the first begotten of the dead, and the prince of the kings of the earth. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood,
- Matt 20:28Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.
- Prov 5:18–19Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
- Rev 5:9And they sung a new song, saying, Thou art worthy to take the book, and to open the seals thereof: for thou wast slain, and hast redeemed us to God by thy blood out of every kindred, and tongue, and people, and nation;
- Gen 24:67And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.
- Acts 20:28Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood.
- 1 Tim 2:6Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time.
- 1 Pet 1:18–21Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers;
- John 6:51I am the living bread which came down from heaven: if any man eat of this bread, he shall live for ever: and the bread that I will give is my flesh, which I will give for the life of the world.
- Luke 22:19–20And he took bread, and gave thanks, and brake it, and gave unto them, saying, This is my body which is given for you: this do in remembrance of me.
- 2 Sam 12:3But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter.
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