Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Parallel translations
- WEB Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
- BSB Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
- NKJV Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
- NASB Nevertheless, as for you individually, each husband is to love his own wife the same as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.
- NLT So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
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In summary, each husband must love his wife as himself, and each wife must respect her husband. Love and respect together sustain a godly marriage.
Overview
Paul concludes the marriage instructions by restating the core duties: sacrificial love for husbands and respect for wives. These complementary callings, rooted throughout in the Christ-church relationship, summarize the section. Together they form a picture of mutual honor that reflects the gospel.
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- 1 Pet 3:2–7While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
- Esth 1:20And when the king’s decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire, (for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small.
- Eph 5:25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
- Eph 5:22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
- Col 3:19Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
- Eph 5:28–29So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
- Heb 12:9Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?
- 1 Kgs 1:31Then Bathsheba bowed with her face to the earth, and did reverence to the king, and said, Let my lord king David live for ever.
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