Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Parallel translations
- WEB Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.
- BSB For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
- NKJV Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
- NASB For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
- NLT This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.
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Quick answer
Marriage is defined as a man and woman leaving, joining, and becoming one flesh. This verse establishes the lasting pattern for marriage.
Overview
Drawing a conclusion from the creation of the woman, the text sets forth the enduring design of marriage: a man leaves his parents, is joined to his wife, and the two become one flesh. Jesus cites this verse to affirm the permanence of marriage and the union of one man and one woman (Matthew 19:4-6). Paul also sees in 'one flesh' a profound picture of Christ's union with the church (Ephesians 5:31-32).
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Theme
- Marriage & Family"They shall become one flesh."
Cross-references · 20
- Matt 19:3–9The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?
- Eph 5:28–31So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
- Mark 10:6–12But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
- Rom 7:2For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
- 1 Pet 3:1–7Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
- 1 Cor 6:16–17What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
- 1 Cor 7:2–4Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
- Prov 31:10Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
- Mal 2:14–16Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant.
- 1 Cor 7:10–11And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
- Prov 12:4A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
- Lev 22:12–13If the priest’s daughter also be married unto a stranger, she may not eat of an offering of the holy things.
- Ps 45:10Hearken, O daughter, and consider, and incline thine ear; forget also thine own people, and thy father’s house;
- 1 Tim 5:14I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
- Gen 24:58–59And they called Rebekah, and said unto her, Wilt thou go with this man? And she said, I will go.
- Deut 4:4But ye that did cleave unto the LORD your God are alive every one of you this day.
- Deut 10:20Thou shalt fear the LORD thy God; him shalt thou serve, and to him shalt thou cleave, and swear by his name.
- Josh 23:8But cleave unto the LORD your God, as ye have done unto this day.
- Gen 31:14–15And Rachel and Leah answered and said unto him, Is there yet any portion or inheritance for us in our father’s house?
- Acts 11:23Who, when he came, and had seen the grace of God, was glad, and exhorted them all, that with purpose of heart they would cleave unto the Lord.
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