He who mistreats his father and chases away his mother Is a son who causes shame and brings reproach.
Parallel translations
- WEB He who robs his father and drives away his mother, is a son who causes shame and brings reproach.
- KJV He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach.
- BSB He who assaults his father or evicts his mother is a son who brings shame and disgrace.
- NASB He who assaults his father and drives his mother away Is a shameful and disgraceful son.
- NLT Children who mistreat their father or chase away their mother are an embarrassment and a public disgrace.
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Quick answer
A son who mistreats his parents brings shame and reproach. Dishonoring father and mother is a disgraceful sin.
Overview
This proverb condemns the son who robs his father and drives out his mother as one who brings shame and reproach upon himself. It upholds the fifth commandment's call to honor parents (Exod. 20:12) and exposes the disgrace of violating it. Such honor toward parents reflects the deeper honor due to God, and the gospel renews hearts to love and care for family rather than to wound them.
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 13
- Prov 10:5He who gathers in summer is a wise son, but he who sleeps during the harvest is a son who causes shame.
- Prov 28:24Whoever robs his father or his mother, and says, “It’s not wrong.” He is a partner with a destroyer.
- Prov 30:17“The eye that mocks at his father, and scorns obedience to his mother: the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, the young eagles shall eat it.
- Prov 17:2A servant who deals wisely will rule over a son who causes shame, and shall have a part in the inheritance among the brothers.
- Prov 28:14Blessed is the man who always fears; but one who hardens his heart falls into trouble.
- Prov 28:7Whoever keeps the law is a wise son; but he who is a companion of gluttons shames his father.
- Deut 21:18–21If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son, who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and though they chasten him, will not listen to them;
- Prov 10:1The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son makes a glad father; but a foolish son brings grief to his mother.
- Prov 17:25A foolish son brings grief to his father, and bitterness to her who bore him.
- Prov 30:11There is a generation that curses their father, and doesn’t bless their mother.
- Prov 23:22–25Listen to your father who gave you life, and don’t despise your mother when she is old.
- Luke 15:12–16The younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of your property.’ He divided his livelihood between them.
- Luke 15:30But when this, your son, came, who has devoured your living with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him.’
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