If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:
Parallel translations
- WEB If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son, who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and though they chasten him, will not listen to them;
- BSB If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father and mother and does not listen to them when disciplined,
- NKJV “If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and who, when they have chastened him, will not heed them,
- NASB “If any person has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father or his mother, and when they discipline him, he does not listen to them,
- NLT “Suppose a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey his father or mother, even though they discipline him.
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Quick answer
This introduces the case of a persistently rebellious son who refuses all parental correction. It frames the gravity of honoring father and mother in the covenant community.
Overview
The law concerns not childish misbehavior but a hardened adult son whose rebellion threatens the family and society. Repeated discipline has failed to reach him. This case upholds the fifth commandment and shows that contempt for God-given authority in the home is a serious covenant matter, foreshadowing how rebellion against the Father ultimately brings judgment apart from grace.
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 28
- Lev 19:3Ye shall fear every man his mother, and his father, and keep my sabbaths: I am the LORD your God.
- Exod 20:12Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
- Amos 4:11–12I have overthrown some of you, as God overthrew Sodom and Gomorrah, and ye were as a firebrand plucked out of the burning: yet have ye not returned unto me, saith the LORD.
- Heb 12:9–11Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?
- Prov 20:20Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness.
- Isa 1:5Why should ye be stricken any more? ye will revolt more and more: the whole head is sick, and the whole heart faint.
- Eph 6:1–3Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
- Isa 1:2Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth: for the LORD hath spoken, I have nourished and brought up children, and they have rebelled against me.
- Prov 29:17Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul.
- Prov 19:18Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.
- Prov 23:13–14Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
- Prov 30:17The eye that mocketh at his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it.
- Prov 22:15Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
- Jer 31:18I have surely heard Ephraim bemoaning himself thus; Thou hast chastised me, and I was chastised, as a bullock unaccustomed to the yoke: turn thou me, and I shall be turned; for thou art the LORD my God.
- Prov 13:24He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
- Deut 27:16Cursed be he that setteth light by his father or his mother. And all the people shall say, Amen.
- 2 Sam 7:14I will be his father, and he shall be my son. If he commit iniquity, I will chasten him with the rod of men, and with the stripes of the children of men:
- Ezek 24:13In thy filthiness is lewdness: because I have purged thee, and thou wast not purged, thou shalt not be purged from thy filthiness any more, till I have caused my fury to rest upon thee.
- Deut 8:5Thou shalt also consider in thine heart, that, as a man chasteneth his son, so the LORD thy God chasteneth thee.
- Lev 21:9And the daughter of any priest, if she profane herself by playing the whore, she profaneth her father: she shall be burnt with fire.
- Jer 5:3O LORD, are not thine eyes upon the truth? thou hast stricken them, but they have not grieved; thou hast consumed them, but they have refused to receive correction: they have made their faces harder than a rock; they have refused to return.
- Ezek 22:7In thee have they set light by father and mother: in the midst of thee have they dealt by oppression with the stranger: in thee have they vexed the fatherless and the widow.
- Prov 30:11There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.
- Prov 28:24Whoso robbeth his father or his mother, and saith, It is no transgression; the same is the companion of a destroyer.
- Exod 21:15And he that smiteth his father, or his mother, shall be surely put to death.
- Prov 15:5A fool despiseth his father’s instruction: but he that regardeth reproof is prudent.
- Exod 21:17And he that curseth his father, or his mother, shall surely be put to death.
- Prov 1:8My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother:
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