As apostles of Christ we certainly had a right to make some demands of you, but instead we were like children among you. Or we were like a mother feeding and caring for her own children.
Parallel translations
- WEB But we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother cherishes her own children.
- KJV But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:
- BSB On the contrary, we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother caring for her children.
- NKJV But we were gentle among you, just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children.
- NASB But we proved to be gentle among you. As a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children,
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Quick answer
Instead of throwing his weight around, Paul was gentle, like a nursing mother caring for her children. His ministry was marked by tender affection.
Overview
Paul pictures his care with a striking maternal image: a nursing mother cherishing her own children. This gentleness contrasts with the heavy-handed authority he could have used (v. 6). Pastoral leadership in Christ's church is to be nurturing and self-giving rather than domineering.
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- Isa 66:13As one whom his mother comforts, so will I comfort you. You will be comforted in Jerusalem.”
- 2 Tim 2:24–25The Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient,
- 1 Th 2:11As you know, we exhorted, comforted, and implored every one of you, as a father does his own children,
- Isa 49:23Kings shall be your foster fathers, and their queens your nursing mothers. They will bow down to you with their faces to the earth, and lick the dust of your feet; Then you will know that I am Yahweh; and those who wait for me shall not be disappointed.”
- 2 Cor 10:1Now I Paul, myself, entreat you by the humility and gentleness of Christ; I who in your presence am lowly among you, but being absent am bold toward you.
- Jas 3:17But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
- Gal 5:22–23But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith,
- 1 Cor 9:22To the weak I became as weak, that I might gain the weak. I have become all things to all men, that I may by all means save some.
- Ezek 34:14–16I will feed them with good pasture; and on the mountains of the height of Israel shall their fold be: there shall they lie down in a good fold; and on fat pasture shall they feed on the mountains of Israel.
- 1 Cor 2:3I was with you in weakness, in fear, and in much trembling.
- Matt 11:29–30Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls.
- Isa 40:11He will feed his flock like a shepherd. He will gather the lambs in his arm, and carry them in his bosom. He will gently lead those who have their young.
- Num 11:12Have I conceived all this people? Have I brought them out, that you should tell me, ‘Carry them in your bosom, as a nurse carries a nursing infant, to the land which you swore to their fathers?’
- Gen 33:13–14Jacob said to him, “My lord knows that the children are tender, and that the flocks and herds with me have their young, and if they overdrive them one day, all the flocks will die.
- John 21:15–17So when they had eaten their breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of Jonah, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I have affection for you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.”
- Acts 13:18For a period of about forty years he put up with them in the wilderness.
- 2 Cor 13:4For he was crucified through weakness, yet he lives through the power of God. For we also are weak in him, but we will live with him through the power of God toward you.
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