On the contrary, we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother caring for her children.
Parallel translations
- WEB But we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother cherishes her own children.
- KJV But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:
- NKJV But we were gentle among you, just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children.
- NASB But we proved to be gentle among you. As a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children,
- NLT As apostles of Christ we certainly had a right to make some demands of you, but instead we were like children among you. Or we were like a mother feeding and caring for her own children.
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Quick answer
Instead of throwing his weight around, Paul was gentle, like a nursing mother caring for her children. His ministry was marked by tender affection.
Overview
Paul pictures his care with a striking maternal image: a nursing mother cherishing her own children. This gentleness contrasts with the heavy-handed authority he could have used (v. 6). Pastoral leadership in Christ's church is to be nurturing and self-giving rather than domineering.
Cross-references & the web
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- Isa 66:13As a mother comforts her son, so will I comfort you, and you will be consoled over Jerusalem.”
- 2 Tim 2:24–25And a servant of the Lord must not be quarrelsome, but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, and forbearing.
- 1 Th 2:11For you know that we treated each of you as a father treats his own children—
- Isa 49:23Kings will be your foster fathers, and their queens your nursing mothers. They will bow to you facedown and lick the dust at your feet. Then you will know that I am the LORD; those who hope in Me will never be put to shame.”
- 2 Cor 10:1Now by the mildness and gentleness of Christ, I appeal to you—I, Paul, who am humble when face to face with you, but bold when away.
- Jas 3:17But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, gentle, accommodating, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.
- Gal 5:22–23But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
- 1 Cor 9:22To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some.
- Ezek 34:14–16I will feed them in good pasture, and the lofty mountains of Israel will be their grazing land. There they will lie down in a good grazing land; they will feed in rich pasture on the mountains of Israel.
- 1 Cor 2:3I came to you in weakness and fear, and with much trembling.
- Matt 11:29–30Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
- Isa 40:11He tends His flock like a shepherd; He gathers the lambs in His arms and carries them close to His heart. He gently leads the nursing ewes.
- Num 11:12Did I conceive all these people? Did I give them birth, so that You should tell me, ‘Carry them in your bosom, as a nurse carries an infant,’ to the land that You swore to give their fathers?
- Gen 33:13–14But Jacob replied, “My lord knows that the children are frail, and I must care for sheep and cattle that are nursing their young. If they are driven hard for even a day, all the animals will die.
- John 21:15–17When they had finished eating, Jesus asked Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love Me more than these?” “Yes, Lord,” he answered, “You know I love You.” Jesus replied, “Feed My lambs.”
- Acts 13:18He endured their conduct for about forty years in the wilderness.
- 2 Cor 13:4For He was indeed crucified in weakness, yet He lives by God’s power. And though we are weak in Him, yet by God’s power we will live with Him to serve you.
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