But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:
Parallel translations
- WEB But we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother cherishes her own children.
- BSB On the contrary, we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother caring for her children.
- NKJV But we were gentle among you, just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children.
- NASB But we proved to be gentle among you. As a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children,
- NLT As apostles of Christ we certainly had a right to make some demands of you, but instead we were like children among you. Or we were like a mother feeding and caring for her own children.
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Quick answer
Instead of throwing his weight around, Paul was gentle, like a nursing mother caring for her children. His ministry was marked by tender affection.
Overview
Paul pictures his care with a striking maternal image: a nursing mother cherishing her own children. This gentleness contrasts with the heavy-handed authority he could have used (v. 6). Pastoral leadership in Christ's church is to be nurturing and self-giving rather than domineering.
Cross-references & the web
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- Isa 66:13As one whom his mother comforteth, so will I comfort you; and ye shall be comforted in Jerusalem.
- 2 Tim 2:24–25And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,
- 1 Th 2:11As ye know how we exhorted and comforted and charged every one of you, as a father doth his children,
- Isa 49:23And kings shall be thy nursing fathers, and their queens thy nursing mothers: they shall bow down to thee with their face toward the earth, and lick up the dust of thy feet; and thou shalt know that I am the LORD: for they shall not be ashamed that wait for me.
- 2 Cor 10:1Now I Paul myself beseech you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, who in presence am base among you, but being absent am bold toward you:
- Jas 3:17But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
- Gal 5:22–23But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
- 1 Cor 9:22To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some.
- Ezek 34:14–16I will feed them in a good pasture, and upon the high mountains of Israel shall their fold be: there shall they lie in a good fold, and in a fat pasture shall they feed upon the mountains of Israel.
- 1 Cor 2:3And I was with you in weakness, and in fear, and in much trembling.
- Matt 11:29–30Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
- Isa 40:11He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those that are with young.
- Num 11:12Have I conceived all this people? have I begotten them, that thou shouldest say unto me, Carry them in thy bosom, as a nursing father beareth the sucking child, unto the land which thou swarest unto their fathers?
- Gen 33:13–14And he said unto him, My lord knoweth that the children are tender, and the flocks and herds with young are with me: and if men should overdrive them one day, all the flock will die.
- John 21:15–17So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs.
- Acts 13:18And about the time of forty years suffered he their manners in the wilderness.
- 2 Cor 13:4For though he was crucified through weakness, yet he liveth by the power of God. For we also are weak in him, but we shall live with him by the power of God toward you.
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