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And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;
Proverbs 5:12 · King James Version
Parallel translations
  • WEB and say, “How I have hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;
  • BSB and you will say, “How I hated discipline, and my heart despised reproof!
  • NKJV And say: “How I have hated instruction, And my heart despised correction!
  • NASB And you say, “How I hated instruction! And my heart disdainfully rejected rebuke!
  • NLT You will say, “How I hated discipline! If only I had not ignored all the warnings!

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Quick answer

Then you will lament how you hated instruction and despised correction. Sin's regret includes grief over rejected wisdom.

Overview

The groaning one (v. 11) confesses the root of his ruin: he hated the very discipline and reproof that could have saved him. Too late he sees the value of the instruction he spurned. The verse warns that despising correction now leads to bitter self-reproach later (cf. Heb 12:11).

Cross-references & the web

Cross-references · 20

  • Prov 12:1Whoso loveth instruction loveth knowledge: but he that hateth reproof is brutish.
  • Prov 15:5A fool despiseth his father’s instruction: but he that regardeth reproof is prudent.
  • Prov 1:25But ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof:
  • Prov 1:7The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
  • Prov 1:22How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity? and the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge?
  • Jer 44:4Howbeit I sent unto you all my servants the prophets, rising early and sending them, saying, Oh, do not this abominable thing that I hate.
  • Ps 50:17Seeing thou hatest instruction, and casteth my words behind thee.
  • Exod 2:13–14And when he went out the second day, behold, two men of the Hebrews strove together: and he said to him that did the wrong, Wherefore smitest thou thy fellow?
  • Zech 1:4–6Be ye not as your fathers, unto whom the former prophets have cried, saying, Thus saith the LORD of hosts; Turn ye now from your evil ways, and from your evil doings: but they did not hear, nor hearken unto me, saith the LORD.
  • John 3:19–20And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
  • Prov 13:18Poverty and shame shall be to him that refuseth instruction: but he that regardeth reproof shall be honoured.
  • 2 Chr 36:16But they mocked the messengers of God, and despised his words, and misused his prophets, until the wrath of the LORD arose against his people, till there was no remedy.
  • 2 Chr 24:20–22And the Spirit of God came upon Zechariah the son of Jehoiada the priest, which stood above the people, and said unto them, Thus saith God, Why transgress ye the commandments of the LORD, that ye cannot prosper? because ye have forsaken the LORD, he hath also forsaken you.
  • 2 Chr 33:10–11And the LORD spake to Manasseh, and to his people: but they would not hearken.
  • Zech 7:11–14But they refused to hearken, and pulled away the shoulder, and stopped their ears, that they should not hear.
  • Ps 73:22So foolish was I, and ignorant: I was as a beast before thee.
  • 2 Chr 25:16And it came to pass, as he talked with him, that the king said unto him, Art thou made of the king’s counsel? forbear; why shouldest thou be smitten? Then the prophet forbare, and said, I know that God hath determined to destroy thee, because thou hast done this, and hast not hearkened unto my counsel.
  • Gen 19:9And they said, Stand back. And they said again, This one fellow came in to sojourn, and he will needs be a judge: now will we deal worse with thee, than with them. And they pressed sore upon the man, even Lot, and came near to break the door.
  • Prov 6:23For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life:
  • Prov 1:29–30For that they hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the LORD:

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Christ at the center

Wisdom personified, with God before creation and the agent of all things, anticipates Christ 'in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom' — the wisdom of God made flesh.

How Proverbs 5:12 points to him is part of the one story that runs through all Scripture — meet Jesus at the heart of the web, or follow a trail that traces him from Genesis to Revelation.

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