Don’t strive with a man without cause, if he has done you no harm.
Parallel translations
- KJV Strive not with a man without cause, if he have done thee no harm.
- BSB Do not accuse a man without cause, when he has done you no harm.
- NKJV Do not strive with a man without cause, If he has done you no harm.
- NASB Do not contend with a person for no reason, If he has done you no harm.
- NLT Don’t pick a fight without reason, when no one has done you harm.
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Quick answer
Do not pick a fight with someone who has done you no harm. Wisdom refuses needless conflict and quarrels.
Overview
The father warns against initiating strife without cause, a mark of a contentious and foolish heart. Peace with others is to be pursued, not casually disturbed. The New Testament likewise calls believers to live peaceably with all so far as it depends on them (Rom 12:18; cf. the peacemaking of Matt 5:9).
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 8
- 2 Tim 2:24The Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient,
- Prov 29:22An angry man stirs up strife, and a wrathful man abounds in sin.
- Rom 12:18–21If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men.
- Prov 18:6A fool’s lips come into strife, and his mouth invites beatings.
- Prov 25:8–9Don’t be hasty in bringing charges to court. What will you do in the end when your neighbor shames you?
- Prov 17:14The beginning of strife is like breaching a dam, therefore stop contention before quarreling breaks out.
- Matt 5:39–41But I tell you, don’t resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also.
- 1 Cor 6:6–8But brother goes to law with brother, and that before unbelievers!
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