A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate.
Parallel translations
- WEB Better is a dinner of herbs, where love is, than a fattened calf with hatred.
- KJV Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith.
- BSB Better a dish of vegetables where there is love than a fattened ox with hatred.
- NKJV Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, Than a fatted calf with hatred.
- NASB Better is a portion of vegetables where there is love, Than a fattened ox served with hatred.
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Quick answer
A humble meal shared in love surpasses a lavish one poisoned by hatred. It matters because love, not luxury, makes a home and table truly rich.
Overview
Paralleling the previous verse, this proverb elevates relational warmth above material plenty. A simple vegetable dinner where love dwells outshines a feast of fattened calf served with animosity. This anticipates the gospel ethic that love is the greatest treasure and the fulfillment of the law (1 Corinthians 13).
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 7
- Prov 17:1Better is a dry morsel with quietness, than a house full of feasting with strife.
- Prov 21:19It is better to dwell in a desert land, than with a contentious and fretful woman.
- Matt 22:4Again he sent out other servants, saying, ‘Tell those who are invited, “Behold, I have prepared my dinner. My cattle and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready. Come to the marriage feast!”’
- 1 Jn 4:16We know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and he who remains in love remains in God, and God remains in him.
- Phil 2:1If there is therefore any exhortation in Christ, if any consolation of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any tender mercies and compassion,
- Ps 133:1–3A Song of Ascents. By David. See how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!
- Luke 15:23Bring the fattened calf, kill it, and let us eat, and celebrate;
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