Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred therewith.
Parallel translations
- WEB Better is a dinner of herbs, where love is, than a fattened calf with hatred.
- BSB Better a dish of vegetables where there is love than a fattened ox with hatred.
- NKJV Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, Than a fatted calf with hatred.
- NASB Better is a portion of vegetables where there is love, Than a fattened ox served with hatred.
- NLT A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate.
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Quick answer
A humble meal shared in love surpasses a lavish one poisoned by hatred. It matters because love, not luxury, makes a home and table truly rich.
Overview
Paralleling the previous verse, this proverb elevates relational warmth above material plenty. A simple vegetable dinner where love dwells outshines a feast of fattened calf served with animosity. This anticipates the gospel ethic that love is the greatest treasure and the fulfillment of the law (1 Corinthians 13).
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 7
- Prov 17:1Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife.
- Prov 21:19It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
- Matt 22:4Again, he sent forth other servants, saying, Tell them which are bidden, Behold, I have prepared my dinner: my oxen and my fatlings are killed, and all things are ready: come unto the marriage.
- 1 Jn 4:16And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
- Phil 2:1If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies,
- Ps 133:1–3Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
- Luke 15:23And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry:
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