how I wish I could be with you now and change my tone, because I am perplexed about you.
Parallel translations
- WEB but I could wish to be present with you now, and to change my tone, for I am perplexed about you.
- KJV I desire to be present with you now, and to change my voice; for I stand in doubt of you.
- NKJV I would like to be present with you now and to change my tone; for I have doubts about you.
- NASB but I could wish to be present with you now and to change my tone of voice, for I am at a loss about you!
- NLT I wish I were with you right now so I could change my tone. But at this distance I don’t know how else to help you.
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Quick answer
Paul wishes he could be with them to speak more gently, for he is perplexed about their condition. His frustration is mingled with deep affection.
Overview
Paul longs for face-to-face presence so he might better gauge their state and adjust his tone. His perplexity shows the genuine difficulty of pastoring people who are drifting from the gospel. The verse conveys the warmth and vulnerability of an apostle who cares more for their souls than for winning an argument at a distance.
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 3
- 1 Th 2:17–18Brothers, although we were torn away from you for a short time (in person, not in heart), our desire to see you face to face was even more intense.
- 1 Cor 4:19–21But I will come to you shortly, if the Lord is willing, and then I will find out not only what these arrogant people are saying, but what power they have.
- 1 Th 3:9How can we adequately thank God for you in return for our great joy over you in His presence?
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