When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.
Parallel translations
- WEB When a man takes a new wife, he shall not go out in the army, neither shall he be assigned any business. He shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer his wife whom he has taken.
- BSB If a man is newly married, he must not be sent to war or be pressed into any duty. For one year he is free to stay at home and bring joy to the wife he has married.
- NKJV “When a man has taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war or be charged with any business; he shall be free at home one year, and bring happiness to his wife whom he has taken.
- NASB “When a man takes a new wife, he is not to go out with the army, nor be assigned any duty; he shall be free at home for one year and shall make his wife whom he has taken happy.
- NLT “A newly married man must not be drafted into the army or be given any other official responsibilities. He must be free to spend one year at home, bringing happiness to the wife he has married.
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Quick answer
A newly married man is exempt from military service and public duty for one year so he can bring joy to his wife. God values the establishing of marriage and family.
Overview
This compassionate exemption let a new household take root before the husband faced the dangers of war or the burdens of office. It reflects God's high regard for marriage and the well-being of the wife in particular. The law's tenderness toward joy in marriage anticipates the gladness of the gospel, where Christ is the bridegroom rejoicing over His bride (John 3:29; Revelation 19:7).
Cross-references & the web
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- Prov 5:18Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
- Deut 20:7And what man is there that hath betrothed a wife, and hath not taken her? let him go and return unto his house, lest he die in the battle, and another man take her.
- Titus 2:4–5That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
- Gen 2:24Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
- Mark 10:6–9But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
- Matt 19:4–6And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
- Eccl 9:9Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.
- Eph 5:28–29So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
- 1 Cor 7:29But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;
- 1 Cor 7:10–15And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
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