Limitless Word
Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord.
Colossians 3:20 · Berean Standard Bible
Parallel translations
  • WEB Children, obey your parents in all things, for this pleases the Lord.
  • KJV Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.
  • NKJV Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord.
  • NASB Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord.
  • NLT Children, always obey your parents, for this pleases the Lord.

Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Scripture quotations taken from the (NASB®) New American Standard Bible®, Copyright © 1960, 1971, 1977, 1995, 2020 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. All rights reserved. lockman.org

Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Quick answer

Children are to obey their parents in everything, because such obedience pleases the Lord. It matters because honoring parents is part of living faithfully under God's order.

Overview

Paul includes children among those addressed in the church, treating their obedience as a genuine spiritual duty, not merely social courtesy. The phrase 'in all things' is governed by the wider call to please the Lord, so obedience is rendered as service to God within the bounds of his will. This reflects the fifth commandment and points to Christ, who himself was obedient to his earthly parents and supremely to his Father.

Cross-references & the web

Cross-references · 20

  • Exod 20:12Honor your father and mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.
  • Eph 6:1–3Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
  • Prov 6:20My son, keep your father’s commandment, and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.
  • Matt 15:4–6For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death.’
  • Matt 19:19honor your father and mother, and love your neighbor as yourself.’”
  • Deut 27:16‘Cursed is he who dishonors his father or mother.’ And let all the people say, ‘Amen!’
  • Lev 19:3Each of you must respect his mother and father, and you must keep My Sabbaths. I am the LORD your God.
  • Prov 30:17As for the eye that mocks a father and scorns obedience to a mother, may the ravens of the valley pluck it out and young vultures devour it.
  • Prov 30:11There is a generation of those who curse their fathers and do not bless their mothers.
  • Col 1:10so that you may walk in a manner worthy of the Lord and may please Him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God,
  • Mal 1:6“A son honors his father, and a servant his master. But if I am a father, where is My honor? And if I am a master, where is your fear of Me?” says the LORD of Hosts to you priests who despise My name. “But you ask, ‘How have we despised Your name?’
  • Heb 13:21equip you with every good thing to do His will. And may He accomplish in us what is pleasing in His sight through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen.
  • Eph 5:24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
  • Prov 20:20Whoever curses his father or mother, his lamp will be extinguished in deepest darkness.
  • Titus 2:9Slaves are to submit to their own masters in everything, to be well-pleasing, not argumentative,
  • Gen 28:7and that Jacob had obeyed his father and mother and gone to Paddan-aram.
  • Deut 21:18–21If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who does not obey his father and mother and does not listen to them when disciplined,
  • Phil 4:18I have all I need and more, now that I have received your gifts from Epaphroditus. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, well-pleasing to God.
  • Ezek 22:7Father and mother are treated with contempt. Within your walls the foreign resident is exploited, the fatherless and the widow are oppressed.
  • Col 3:22Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything, not only to please them while they are watching, but with sincerity of heart and fear of the Lord.

Resources, by level

Commentaries & study tools

  • VideoBibleProject — Colossians videosBibleProject · Lay · Free · evangelical

    Free animated overview and word-study videos for this book.

  • VideoWatch teaching on Colossians 3:20YouTube · Lay · Free

    Sermons and teaching on this passage from across YouTube.

  • CommentaryEnduring Word — verse-by-verseDavid Guzik · Lay · Free · evangelical

    Clear, readable, conservative exposition — the best free place to start on any passage.

  • CommentaryClassic commentaries for this verseBibleHub (20+ works) · Pastoral · Free

    Matthew Henry, Barnes, Gill, the Pulpit Commentary, Ellicott, Cambridge, and more — stacked on one page for this exact verse.

  • CommentaryMatthew Henry on ColossiansMatthew Henry · Pastoral · Free · evangelical

    The beloved Puritan exposition of this whole book — warm, devotional, and verse by verse (free, CCEL).

  • ReferenceInterlinear, lexicon & Strong'sBlue Letter Bible · Seminary · Free

    Hebrew/Greek interlinear, word definitions, and cross-references for this verse.

Christ at the center

The image of the invisible God, firstborn over creation, in whom all things hold together and all the fullness of God dwells bodily — supreme over every power.

How Colossians 3:20 points to him is part of the one story that runs through all Scripture — meet Jesus at the heart of the web, or follow a trail that traces him from Genesis to Revelation.

Original language

Each word below is tagged with its Strong’s number — tap one to see the underlying Greek word, its meaning, and every verse that uses it.