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but it should be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.
1 Peter 3:4 · New American Standard Bible
Parallel translations
  • WEB but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious.
  • KJV But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
  • BSB but from the inner disposition of your heart, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight.
  • NKJV rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.
  • NLT You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.

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Quick answer

True beauty is the inner person of the heart, adorned with a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God's sight. God treasures lasting inner character over outward appearance.

Overview

Peter locates real beauty in 'the hidden person of the heart,' an 'incorruptible adornment' that does not fade like external looks. A 'gentle and quiet spirit' describes a settled, trusting disposition, not weakness or mere silence. What matters most is that this inner character is 'very precious' in God's sight, valued by the One whose judgment counts.

Cross-references & the web

Cross-references · 39

  • Col 3:12Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance;
  • 1 Sam 16:7But Yahweh said to Samuel, “Don’t look on his face, or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for I don’t see as man sees. For man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart.”
  • Rom 2:29but he is a Jew who is one inwardly, and circumcision is that of the heart, in the spirit not in the letter; whose praise is not from men, but from God.
  • Matt 11:29Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls.
  • Titus 3:2to speak evil of no one, not to be contentious, to be gentle, showing all humility toward all men.
  • Matt 23:26You blind Pharisee, first clean the inside of the cup and of the platter, that its outside may become clean also.
  • Rom 7:22For I delight in God’s law after the inward man,
  • Eph 4:2with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love;
  • 2 Cor 4:16Therefore we don’t faint, but though our outward man is decaying, yet our inward man is renewed day by day.
  • 1 Th 4:11and that you make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, even as we instructed you;
  • 1 Pet 3:15But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts; and always be ready to give an answer to everyone who asks you a reason concerning the hope that is in you, with humility and fear:
  • Isa 61:1The Lord Yahweh’s Spirit is on me; because Yahweh has anointed me to preach good news to the humble. He has sent me to bind up the broken hearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and release to those who are bound;
  • Ps 25:9He will guide the humble in justice. He will teach the humble his way.
  • Ps 147:10–11He doesn’t delight in the strength of the horse. He takes no pleasure in the legs of a man.
  • 1 Tim 2:2for kings and all who are in high places; that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and reverence.
  • Jas 3:13–17Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by his good conduct that his deeds are done in gentleness of wisdom.
  • Isa 57:15For thus says the high and lofty One who inhabits eternity, whose name is Holy: “I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also who is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite.
  • Luke 11:40You foolish ones, didn’t he who made the outside make the inside also?
  • Matt 5:5Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth.
  • 2 Th 3:12Now those who are that way, we command and exhort in the Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread.
  • Jas 1:21Therefore, putting away all filthiness and overflowing of wickedness, receive with humility the implanted word, which is able to save your souls.
  • 2 Tim 2:25in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth,
  • Isa 29:19The humble also will increase their joy in Yahweh, and the poor among men will rejoice in the Holy One of Israel.
  • Eph 4:22–24that you put away, as concerning your former way of life, the old man, that grows corrupt after the lusts of deceit;
  • Ps 147:6Yahweh upholds the humble. He brings the wicked down to the ground.
  • Ps 149:4For Yahweh takes pleasure in his people. He crowns the humble with salvation.
  • Ps 45:13The princess inside is all glorious. Her clothing is interwoven with gold.
  • Ps 51:6Behold, you desire truth in the inward parts. You teach me wisdom in the inmost place.
  • Gal 5:23gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
  • 1 Pet 1:23having been born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, through the word of God, which lives and remains forever.
  • Ps 131:2Surely I have stilled and quieted my soul, like a weaned child with his mother, like a weaned child is my soul within me.
  • Col 3:3For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.
  • Rom 6:6knowing this, that our old man was crucified with him, that the body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be in bondage to sin.
  • Col 3:9–10Don’t lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his doings,
  • Isa 11:4but with righteousness he will judge the poor, and decide with equity for the humble of the earth. He will strike the earth with the rod of his mouth; and with the breath of his lips he will kill the wicked.
  • Luke 16:15He said to them, “You are those who justify yourselves in the sight of men, but God knows your hearts. For that which is exalted among men is an abomination in the sight of God.
  • 2 Cor 10:1Now I Paul, myself, entreat you by the humility and gentleness of Christ; I who in your presence am lowly among you, but being absent am bold toward you.
  • Jer 51:59The word which Jeremiah the prophet commanded Seraiah the son of Neriah, the son of Mahseiah, when he went with Zedekiah the king of Judah to Babylon in the fourth year of his reign. Now Seraiah was chief quartermaster.
  • Matt 21:5“Tell the daughter of Zion, behold, your King comes to you, humble, and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.”

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