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Do not rebuke a scoffer, or he will hate you; Rebuke a wise person and he will love you.
Proverbs 9:8 · New American Standard Bible
Parallel translations
  • WEB Don’t reprove a scoffer, lest he hate you. Reprove a wise man, and he will love you.
  • KJV Reprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee: rebuke a wise man, and he will love thee.
  • BSB Do not rebuke a mocker, or he will hate you; rebuke a wise man, and he will love you.
  • NKJV Do not correct a scoffer, lest he hate you; Rebuke a wise man, and he will love you.
  • NLT So don’t bother correcting mockers; they will only hate you. But correct the wise, and they will love you.

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Quick answer

Don't rebuke a scoffer, who will hate you, but reprove a wise man, who will love you. The wise welcome correction; the scornful resent it.

Overview

The verse contrasts two responses to reproof, teaching practical discernment about when correction will bear fruit. The wise person values truth more than comfort and so loves the one who corrects him. This humble teachability is a mark of those being shaped by God's wisdom, and ultimately by the Spirit who convicts and conforms us to Christ (Psalm 141:5).

Cross-references & the web

Cross-references · 17

  • Prov 13:18Poverty and shame come to him who refuses discipline, but he who heeds correction shall be honored.
  • Ps 141:5Let the righteous strike me, it is kindness; let him reprove me, it is like oil on the head; don’t let my head refuse it; Yet my prayer is always against evil deeds.
  • Prov 23:9Don’t speak in the ears of a fool, for he will despise the wisdom of your words.
  • Prov 15:12A scoffer doesn’t love to be reproved; he will not go to the wise.
  • Matt 7:6“Don’t give that which is holy to the dogs, neither throw your pearls before the pigs, lest perhaps they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.
  • Prov 29:1He who is often rebuked and stiffens his neck will be destroyed suddenly, with no remedy.
  • Prov 28:23One who rebukes a man will afterward find more favor than one who flatters with the tongue.
  • Lev 19:17“‘You shall not hate your brother in your heart. You shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and not bear sin because of him.
  • Matt 15:14Leave them alone. They are blind guides of the blind. If the blind guide the blind, both will fall into a pit.”
  • Heb 6:4–8For concerning those who were once enlightened and tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Holy Spirit,
  • 2 Pet 3:15–16Regard the patience of our Lord as salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also, according to the wisdom given to him, wrote to you;
  • 2 Sam 12:7–14Nathan said to David, “You are the man. This is what Yahweh, the God of Israel, says: ‘I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you out of the hand of Saul.
  • Num 14:6–10Joshua the son of Nun and Caleb the son of Jephunneh, who were of those who spied out the land, tore their clothes.
  • 1 Kgs 1:23They told the king, saying, “Behold, Nathan the prophet!” When he had come in before the king, he bowed himself before the king with his face to the ground.
  • 1 Kgs 1:32King David said, “Call to me Zadok the priest, Nathan the prophet, and Benaiah the son of Jehoiada.” They came before the king.
  • 1 Kgs 22:8The king of Israel said to Jehoshaphat, “There is yet one man by whom we may inquire of Yahweh, Micaiah the son of Imlah; but I hate him, for he does not prophesy good concerning me, but evil.” Jehoshaphat said, “Don’t let the king say so.”
  • Gal 2:11–14But when Peter came to Antioch, I resisted him to his face, because he stood condemned.

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Christ at the center

Wisdom personified, with God before creation and the agent of all things, anticipates Christ 'in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom' — the wisdom of God made flesh.

How Proverbs 9:8 points to him is part of the one story that runs through all Scripture — meet Jesus at the heart of the web, or follow a trail that traces him from Genesis to Revelation.

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