restraining her is like holding back the wind or grasping oil with one’s right hand.
Parallel translations
- WEB restraining her is like restraining the wind, or like grasping oil in his right hand.
- KJV Whosoever hideth her hideth the wind, and the ointment of his right hand, which bewrayeth itself.
- NKJV Whoever restrains her restrains the wind, And grasps oil with his right hand.
- NASB He who would restrain her restrains the wind, And grasps oil with his right hand.
- NLT Stopping her complaints is like trying to stop the wind or trying to hold something with greased hands.
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Quick answer
Trying to control a contentious spouse is as futile as holding the wind or grasping oil. It depicts how ungovernable persistent strife can be.
Overview
Completing the previous verse, this saying stresses the impossibility of restraining a quarrelsome person by force, like catching wind or gripping slippery oil. The point is not despair but the need for a different remedy than mere control. Lasting peace in relationships comes through hearts transformed by grace, where the Spirit produces gentleness and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
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- John 12:3Then Mary took about a pint of expensive perfume, made of pure nard, and she anointed Jesus’ feet and wiped them with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.
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