A lying tongue hates those it crushes, and a flattering mouth causes ruin.
Parallel translations
- WEB A lying tongue hates those it hurts; and a flattering mouth works ruin.
- KJV A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin.
- NKJV A lying tongue hates those who are crushed by it, And a flattering mouth works ruin.
- NASB A lying tongue hates those it crushes, And a flattering mouth works ruin.
- NLT A lying tongue hates its victims, and flattering words cause ruin.
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Quick answer
A lying tongue hates its victims and flattery brings ruin. Deceitful and flattering speech destroys.
Overview
The verse pairs lying and flattery as twin forms of destructive speech, both rooted in disregard for others' good. Flattery, like outright lies, ultimately works ruin rather than love. It commends truthful, loving speech that builds up rather than tears down (Eph 4:15, 29).
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 9
- John 8:44–49You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out his desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, refusing to uphold the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, because he is a liar and the father of lies.
- Luke 20:20–21So they watched Him closely and sent spies who pretended to be sincere. They were hoping to catch Him in His words in order to hand Him over to the rule and authority of the governor.
- Prov 7:21–23With her great persuasion she entices him; with her flattering lips she lures him.
- Prov 7:5that they may keep you from the adulteress, from the stranger with seductive words.
- John 10:32–33But Jesus responded, “I have shown you many good works from the Father. For which of these do you stone Me?”
- Prov 29:5A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet.
- Prov 6:24to keep you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress.
- John 15:22–24If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin. Now, however, they have no excuse for their sin.
- John 8:40But now you are trying to kill Me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham never did such a thing.
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