so is the man who deceives his neighbor and says, “I was only joking!”
Parallel translations
- WEB is the man who deceives his neighbor and says, “Am I not joking?”
- KJV So is the man that deceiveth his neighbour, and saith, Am not I in sport?
- NKJV Is the man who deceives his neighbor, And says, “I was only joking!”
- NASB So is a person who deceives his neighbor, And says, “Was I not joking?”
- NLT is someone who lies to a friend and then says, “I was only joking.”
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Quick answer
One who deceives a neighbor and claims he was only joking is like that reckless madman. Hiding harm behind humor is dangerous deceit.
Overview
Completing verse 18, this exposes those who wound others through deception and then dismiss it as a joke. Such excuses do not undo the real damage done to relationships and trust. The proverb calls for honesty and integrity, refusing to mask cruelty as harmless fun (Eph 4:25).
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Cross-references · 5
- Eph 5:4Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk, or crude joking, which are out of character, but rather thanksgiving.
- Prov 10:23The fool delights in shameful conduct, but a man of understanding has wisdom.
- Prov 14:9Fools mock the making of amends, but goodwill is found among the upright.
- Prov 15:21Folly is joy to one who lacks judgment, but a man of understanding walks a straight path.
- 2 Pet 2:13The harm they will suffer is the wages of their wickedness. They consider it a pleasure to carouse in broad daylight. They are blots and blemishes, reveling in their deception as they feast with you.
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