for it is better that he says to you, “Come up here!” than that you should be demoted in the presence of the prince. Even what you have seen with your own eyes,
Parallel translations
- WEB for it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,” than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince, whom your eyes have seen.
- KJV For better it is that it be said unto thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.
- NKJV For it is better that he say to you, “Come up here,” Than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince, Whom your eyes have seen.
- NASB For it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,” Than for you to be placed lower in the presence of the prince, Whom your eyes have seen.
- NLT It’s better to wait for an invitation to the head table than to be sent away in public disgrace. Just because you’ve seen something,
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Quick answer
It is better to be invited higher than to be publicly demoted. Let honor be given to you rather than seized.
Overview
Continuing verse 6, the proverb shows the wisdom of humility: being raised up is far better than the shame of being put down. Jesus directly applies this teaching, adding that those who humble themselves will be exalted (Luke 14:10-11). It points to the gospel pattern in which Christ humbled himself and was therefore highly exalted (Phil 2:8-9).
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- Luke 14:7–11When Jesus noticed how the guests chose the places of honor, He told them a parable:
- Luke 18:14I tell you, this man, rather than the Pharisee, went home justified. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”
- 1 Pet 5:5Young men, in the same way, submit yourselves to your elders. And all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”
- Rev 4:1After this I looked and saw a door standing open in heaven. And the voice I had previously heard speak to me like a trumpet was saying, “Come up here, and I will show you what must happen after these things.”
- Prov 16:19It is better to be lowly in spirit among the humble than to divide the spoil with the proud.
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