By patience a ruler is persuaded. A soft tongue breaks the bone.
Parallel translations
- KJV By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.
- BSB Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
- NKJV By long forbearance a ruler is persuaded, And a gentle tongue breaks a bone.
- NASB Through patience a ruler may be persuaded, And a gentle tongue breaks bone.
- NLT Patience can persuade a prince, and soft speech can break bones.
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Quick answer
Patient persuasion and gentle speech can overcome even the strongest resistance. Soft words wield surprising power.
Overview
The proverb teaches that patience and a gentle tongue accomplish more than force, even moving a ruler. It commends self-controlled, gracious persuasion over harsh pressure (Prov 15:1). This reflects the gentle, persistent way of God's kindness that leads to repentance (Rom 2:4).
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 6
- Prov 15:1A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
- Eccl 10:4If the spirit of the ruler rises up against you, don’t leave your place; for gentleness lays great offenses to rest.
- Prov 16:14The king’s wrath is a messenger of death, but a wise man will pacify it.
- 1 Sam 25:24–44She fell at his feet, and said, “On me, my lord, on me be the blame! Please let your servant speak in your ears. Hear the words of your servant.
- Gen 32:4–21He commanded them, saying, “This is what you shall tell my lord, Esau: ‘This is what your servant, Jacob, says. I have lived as a foreigner with Laban, and stayed until now.
- 1 Sam 25:14But one of the young men told Abigail, Nabal’s wife, saying, “Behold, David sent messengers out of the wilderness to Greet our master; and he insulted them.
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