“Not everyone can accept this word,” He replied, “but only those to whom it has been given.
Parallel translations
- WEB But he said to them, “Not all men can receive this saying, but those to whom it is given.
- KJV But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
- NKJV But He said to them, “All cannot accept this saying, but only those to whom it has been given:
- NASB But He said to them, “Not all men can accept this statement, but only those to whom it has been given.
- NLT “Not everyone can accept this statement,” Jesus said. “Only those whom God helps.
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Quick answer
Jesus says not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. Singleness, like marriage, is a particular calling and gift from God.
Overview
Jesus indicates that the capacity to remain unmarried for the kingdom is a divine gift granted to some, not a universal requirement. This frames celibacy not as superior or inferior but as a God-given vocation. It dignifies both the married and the single life as callings under God.
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 5
- 1 Cor 7:17Regardless, each one should lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him and to which God has called him. This is what I prescribe in all the churches.
- 1 Cor 7:35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but in order to promote proper decorum and undivided devotion to the Lord.
- Matt 13:11He replied, “The knowledge of the mysteries of the kingdom of heaven has been given to you, but not to them.
- 1 Cor 7:2But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.
- 1 Cor 7:7–9I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
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