For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’;
Parallel translations
- WEB For I came to set a man at odds against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.
- KJV For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
- BSB For I have come to turn ‘a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.
- NASB For I came to turn a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
- NLT ‘I have come to set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.
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Quick answer
Allegiance to Christ can set family members against one another. Loyalty to Him may cost a person their closest earthly relationships.
Overview
Echoing Micah 7:6, Jesus describes how commitment to Him can divide parents and children. The gospel's claim is so total that it reorders even the dearest bonds. This sobering reality is not Jesus' aim but the effect of a fallen world's resistance to the King who demands first place.
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Cross-references · 5
- Mic 7:5–6Don’t trust in a neighbor. Don’t put confidence in a friend. With the woman lying in your embrace, be careful of the words of your mouth!
- Matt 10:21“Brother will deliver up brother to death, and the father his child. Children will rise up against parents, and cause them to be put to death.
- Luke 21:16You will be handed over even by parents, brothers, relatives, and friends. They will cause some of you to be put to death.
- Matt 24:10Then many will stumble, and will deliver up one another, and will hate one another.
- Mark 13:12“Brother will deliver up brother to death, and the father his child. Children will rise up against parents, and cause them to be put to death.
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