And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong—you want only what will give you pleasure.
Parallel translations
- WEB You ask, and don’t receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it for your pleasures.
- KJV Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
- BSB And when you do ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may squander it on your pleasures.
- NKJV You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures.
- NASB You ask and do not receive, because you ask with the wrong motives, so that you may spend what you request on your pleasures.
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Quick answer
Even prayers go unanswered when offered with selfish motives. God will not subsidize cravings aimed only at our pleasures.
Overview
James corrects a misuse of prayer: asking merely to fund self-indulgence is asking wrongly. God answers prayer aligned with his will and our good, not requests meant to feed the very lusts that cause strife. This calls believers to examine their motives, trusting the Father who gives good gifts to those who seek his kingdom first (Matthew 7:11; 6:33).
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- 1 Jn 5:14This is the boldness which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us.
- 1 Jn 3:22and whatever we ask, we receive from him, because we keep his commandments and do the things that are pleasing in his sight.
- Jas 1:6–7But let him ask in faith, without any doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, driven by the wind and tossed.
- Jas 4:1Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members?
- Prov 15:8The sacrifice made by the wicked is an abomination to Yahweh, but the prayer of the upright is his delight.
- Mic 3:4Then they will cry to Yahweh, but he will not answer them. Yes, he will hide his face from them at that time, because they made their deeds evil.”
- Ps 66:18–19If I cherished sin in my heart, the Lord wouldn’t have listened.
- Job 35:12There they cry, but no one gives answer, because of the pride of evil men.
- Zech 7:13It has come to pass that, as he called, and they refused to listen, so they will call, and I will not listen,” said Yahweh of Armies;
- Luke 16:1–2He also said to his disciples, “There was a certain rich man who had a manager. An accusation was made to him that this man was wasting his possessions.
- Job 27:8–10For what is the hope of the godless, when he is cut off, when God takes away his life?
- Prov 21:13Whoever stops his ears at the cry of the poor, he will also cry out, but shall not be heard.
- Matt 20:22But Jesus answered, “You don’t know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I am about to drink, and be baptized with the baptism that I am baptized with?” They said to him, “We are able.”
- Mark 10:38But Jesus said to them, “You don’t know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I drink, and to be baptized with the baptism that I am baptized with?”
- Luke 15:13Not many days after, the younger son gathered all of this together and traveled into a far country. There he wasted his property with riotous living.
- Prov 21:27The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination; how much more, when he brings it with a wicked mind!
- Prov 1:28Then will they call on me, but I will not answer. They will seek me diligently, but they will not find me;
- Jer 11:14“Therefore don’t pray for this people, neither lift up cry nor prayer for them; for I will not hear them in the time that they cry to me because of their trouble.
- Isa 1:15–16When you spread out your hands, I will hide my eyes from you. Yes, when you make many prayers, I will not hear. Your hands are full of blood.
- Ps 18:41They cried, but there was no one to save; even to Yahweh, but he didn’t answer them.
- Jer 14:12When they fast, I will not hear their cry; and when they offer burnt offering and meal offering, I will not accept them; but I will consume them by the sword, and by the famine, and by the pestilence.”
- Jer 11:11Therefore Yahweh says, ‘Behold, I will bring evil on them, which they shall not be able to escape; and they shall cry to me, but I will not listen to them.
- Luke 15:30But when this, your son, came, who has devoured your living with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him.’
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