And Judah said, Let her take it to her, lest we be shamed: behold, I sent this kid, and thou hast not found her.
Parallel translations
- WEB Judah said, “Let her keep it, lest we be shamed. Behold, I sent this young goat, and you haven’t found her.”
- BSB “Let her keep the items,” Judah replied. “Otherwise we will become a laughingstock. After all, I did send her this young goat, but you could not find her.”
- NKJV Then Judah said, “Let her take them for herself, lest we be shamed; for I sent this young goat and you have not found her.”
- NASB Then Judah said, “Let her keep them, otherwise we will become a laughingstock. After all, I sent this young goat, but you did not find her.”
- NLT “Then let her keep the things I gave her,” Judah said. “I sent the young goat as we agreed, but you couldn’t find her. We’d be the laughingstock of the village if we went back again to look for her.”
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Quick answer
To avoid embarrassment, Judah drops the matter and lets the woman keep the pledge.
Overview
Judah prioritizes his reputation over recovering his costly items, ironically caring more about appearances than righteousness. He unwittingly leaves the proof of his guilt in Tamar's possession. His concern for shame foreshadows the public exposure soon to come.
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- Rev 16:15Behold, I come as a thief. Blessed is he that watcheth, and keepeth his garments, lest he walk naked, and they see his shame.
- Prov 6:33A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away.
- 2 Cor 4:2But have renounced the hidden things of dishonesty, not walking in craftiness, nor handling the word of God deceitfully; but by manifestation of the truth commending ourselves to every man’s conscience in the sight of God.
- Rom 6:21What fruit had ye then in those things whereof ye are now ashamed? for the end of those things is death.
- Eph 5:12For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret.
- 2 Sam 12:9Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon.
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From the first promise that the seed of the woman would crush the serpent (3:15), through Abraham's blessing to all nations and Judah's coming ruler, Genesis sows every seed that flowers in Christ — the true offspring, the better Adam, the ram caught for Isaac.
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