If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he shall pay money according to the dowry of virgins.
Parallel translations
- WEB If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money according to the dowry of virgins.
- BSB If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, the man still must pay an amount comparable to the bridal price of a virgin.
- NKJV If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money according to the bride-price of virgins.
- NASB If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equal to the dowry for virgins.
- NLT But if her father refuses to let him marry her, the man must still pay him an amount equal to the bride price of a virgin.
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Quick answer
If the father refuses the marriage, the man still pays the full bride-price. The woman is protected and compensated even if marriage does not occur.
Overview
The father's right to refuse safeguards the daughter from an unworthy man, while the required payment ensures she is not left disgraced and destitute. The law consistently protects the vulnerable woman's welfare. Such defense of the wronged reflects God's heart for the vulnerable, fully revealed in Christ's care for the lowly.
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 5
- Gen 34:12Ask me never so much dowry and gift, and I will give according as ye shall say unto me: but give me the damsel to wife.
- 1 Sam 18:25And Saul said, Thus shall ye say to David, The king desireth not any dowry, but an hundred foreskins of the Philistines, to be avenged of the king’s enemies. But Saul thought to make David fall by the hand of the Philistines.
- Deut 22:29Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel’s father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
- Deut 7:3–4Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son.
- Gen 23:16And Abraham hearkened unto Ephron; and Abraham weighed to Ephron the silver, which he had named in the audience of the sons of Heth, four hundred shekels of silver, current money with the merchant.
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