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Ecclesiastes 3:5

a time to cast away stones and a time to gather stones together, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
Ecclesiastes 3:5 · Berean Standard Bible
Parallel translations
  • WEB a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
  • KJV A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
  • NKJV A time to cast away stones, And a time to gather stones; A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
  • NASB A time to throw stones and a time to gather stones; A time to embrace and a time to shun embracing.
  • NLT A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away.

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Quick answer

There is a time to scatter stones and gather them, to embrace and to refrain. Differing actions and relationships each have their proper time.

Overview

These pairs cover practical work and human intimacy, both governed by appropriate seasons. Whether the imagery refers to fieldwork, building, or relational closeness, the point is timeliness. The verse teaches wisdom in discerning the right moment for each action, trusting that God orders even the seasons of our relationships.

Cross-references & the web

Cross-references · 9

  • 2 Kgs 3:25They destroyed the cities, and each man threw stones on every good field until it was covered. They stopped up every spring and cut down every good tree. Only Kir-haraseth was left with stones in place, but men with slings surrounded it and attacked it as well.
  • Josh 10:27At sunset Joshua ordered that they be taken down from the trees and thrown into the cave in which they had hidden. Then large stones were placed against the mouth of the cave, and the stones are there to this day.
  • Josh 4:3–9and command them: ‘Take up for yourselves twelve stones from the middle of the Jordan where the priests were standing, carry them with you, and set them down in the place where you spend the night.’”
  • Joel 2:16Gather the people, sanctify the congregation, assemble the aged, gather the children, even those nursing at the breast. Let the bridegroom leave his room, and the bride her chamber.
  • 1 Sam 21:4–5“There is no common bread on hand,” the priest replied, “but there is some consecrated bread—provided that the young men have kept themselves from women.”
  • 2 Sam 18:17–18They took Absalom, cast him into a large pit in the forest, and piled a huge mound of stones over him. Meanwhile, all the Israelites fled, each to his home.
  • Song 2:6–7His left hand is under my head, and his right arm embraces me.
  • Exod 19:15“Be prepared for the third day,” he said to the people. “Do not draw near to a woman.”
  • 1 Cor 7:5Do not deprive each other, except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control.

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Commentaries & study tools

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  • CommentaryMatthew Henry on EcclesiastesMatthew Henry · Pastoral · Free · evangelical

    The beloved Puritan exposition of this whole book — warm, devotional, and verse by verse (free, CCEL).

  • ReferenceInterlinear, lexicon & Strong'sBlue Letter Bible · Seminary · Free

    Hebrew/Greek interlinear, word definitions, and cross-references for this verse.

Christ at the center

The search that finds everything 'under the sun' to be vapor exposes the emptiness of life without God and drives us to the one who alone gives meaning, the resurrection that makes our labor not in vain.

How Ecclesiastes 3:5 points to him is part of the one story that runs through all Scripture — meet Jesus at the heart of the web, or follow a trail that traces him from Genesis to Revelation.

Original language

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