Take note of those who refuse to obey what we say in this letter. Stay away from them so they will be ashamed.
Parallel translations
- WEB If any man doesn’t obey our word in this letter, note that man, that you have no company with him, to the end that he may be ashamed.
- KJV And if any man obey not our word by this epistle, note that man, and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed.
- BSB Take note of anyone who does not obey the instructions we have given in this letter. Do not associate with him, so that he may be ashamed.
- NKJV And if anyone does not obey our word in this epistle, note that person and do not keep company with him, that he may be ashamed.
- NASB If anyone does not obey our instruction in this letter, take special note of that person so as not to associate with him, so that he will be put to shame.
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Quick answer
If anyone refuses to obey this letter, the church should mark that person and withhold fellowship so he feels shame and repents. Discipline aims at restorative shame, not rejection.
Overview
Paul calls for a deliberate, communal response to persistent disobedience, distancing fellowship so the offender recognizes his fault. The goal "that he may be ashamed" is corrective, seeking a change of heart rather than punishment for its own sake. This reflects the loving, redemptive purpose of all biblical church discipline (Matthew 18:15-17).
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- Titus 3:10Avoid a factious man after a first and second warning,
- 1 Cor 5:11But as it is, I wrote to you not to associate with anyone who is called a brother who is a sexual sinner, or covetous, or an idolater, or a slanderer, or a drunkard, or an extortionist. Don’t even eat with such a person.
- 2 Th 3:6Now we command you, brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you withdraw yourselves from every brother who walks in rebellion, and not after the tradition which they received from us.
- Ps 83:16Fill their faces with confusion, that they may seek your name, Yahweh.
- 1 Th 4:8Therefore he who rejects this doesn’t reject man, but God, who has also given his Holy Spirit to you.
- Jer 6:15Were they ashamed when they had committed abomination? No, they were not at all ashamed, neither could they blush. Therefore they shall fall among those who fall; at the time that I visit them, they shall be cast down,” says Yahweh.
- Prov 5:13neither have I obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor turned my ear to those who instructed me!
- Phlm 1:21Having confidence in your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even beyond what I say.
- Rom 16:17Now I beg you, brothers, look out for those who are causing the divisions and occasions of stumbling, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and turn away from them.
- 1 Cor 5:9I wrote to you in my letter to have no company with sexual sinners;
- Zeph 3:2She didn’t obey the voice. She didn’t receive correction. She didn’t trust in Yahweh. She didn’t draw near to her God.
- 2 Cor 10:6and being in readiness to avenge all disobedience, when your obedience will be made full.
- Deut 16:12You shall remember that you were a slave in Egypt. You shall observe and do these statutes.
- Ezek 16:61–63Then you will remember your ways and be ashamed, when you receive your sisters, your elder sisters and your younger; and I will give them to you for daughters, but not by your covenant.
- 2 Cor 2:9For to this end I also wrote, that I might know the proof of you, whether you are obedient in all things.
- Num 12:14Yahweh said to Moses, “If her father had but spit in her face, shouldn’t she be ashamed seven days? Let her be shut up outside of the camp seven days, and after that she shall be brought in again.”
- Matt 18:17If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector.
- 2 Cor 7:15His affection is more abundantly toward you, while he remembers all of your obedience, how with fear and trembling you received him.
- Luke 15:18–21I will get up and go to my father, and will tell him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight.
- Heb 13:17Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they watch on behalf of your souls, as those who will give account, that they may do this with joy, and not with groaning, for that would be unprofitable for you.
- Ezek 36:31–32Then you shall remember your evil ways, and your doings that were not good; and you shall loathe yourselves in your own sight for your iniquities and for your abominations.
- Ezra 9:6and I said, “My God, I am ashamed and blush to lift up my face to you, my God; for our iniquities have increased over our head, and our guiltiness has grown up to the heavens.
- Jer 3:3Therefore the showers have been withheld, and there has been no latter rain; yet you have a prostitute’s forehead. You refused to be ashamed.
- Jer 31:18–20“I have surely heard Ephraim bemoaning himself thus, ‘You have chastised me, and I was chastised, as an untrained calf: turn me, and I shall be turned; for you are Yahweh my God.
- Phil 2:12So then, my beloved, even as you have always obeyed, not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.
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