Her husband followed her, weeping all the way to Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go back.” So he returned home.
Parallel translations
- WEB Her husband went with her, weeping as he went, and followed her to Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go! Return!” and he returned.
- KJV And her husband went with her along weeping behind her to Bahurim. Then said Abner unto him, Go, return. And he returned.
- NKJV Then her husband went along with her to Bahurim, weeping behind her. So Abner said to him, “Go, return!” And he returned.
- NASB And her husband went with her, weeping as he went, following her as far as Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go, return.” So he returned.
- NLT Palti followed along behind her as far as Bahurim, weeping as he went. Then Abner told him, “Go back home!” So Palti returned.
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Quick answer
Paltiel follows Michal in tears until Abner orders him to turn back. The scene poignantly captures the heartbreak woven through these political dealings.
Overview
Paltiel's weeping all the way to Bahurim shows genuine love and the real human suffering caused by Saul's original sin of giving away David's wife. Abner's curt command sends him home, and the grief is left unresolved in the text. Scripture records such sorrow honestly, neither glorifying nor excusing the tangled consequences of past wrongs among God's people.
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 5
- 2 Sam 19:16Then Shimei son of Gera, a Benjamite from Bahurim, hurried down with the men of Judah to meet King David,
- 2 Sam 16:5As King David approached Bahurim, a man from the family of the house of Saul was just coming out. His name was Shimei son of Gera, and as he approached, he kept yelling out curses.
- 1 Kgs 2:8Keep an eye on Shimei the son of Gera, the Benjamite from Bahurim who is with you. He called down bitter curses against me on the day I went to Mahanaim, but when he came down to meet me at the Jordan, I swore to him by the LORD: ‘I will never put you to the sword.’
- 2 Sam 17:18But a young man did see them and told Absalom. So the two left quickly and came to the house of a man in Bahurim. He had a well in his courtyard, and they climbed down into it.
- Prov 9:17–18“Stolen water is sweet, and bread eaten in secret is tasty!”
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