It was so, that when any man came near to do him obeisance, he stretched out his hand, and took hold of him, and kissed him.
Parallel translations
- KJV And it was so, that when any man came nigh to him to do him obeisance, he put forth his hand, and took him, and kissed him.
- BSB Also, when anyone approached to bow down to him, Absalom would reach out his hand, take hold of him, and kiss him.
- NKJV And so it was, whenever anyone came near to bow down to him, that he would put out his hand and take him and kiss him.
- NASB And whenever a man approached to prostrate himself before him, he would put out his hand and take hold of him and kiss him.
- NLT When people tried to bow before him, Absalom wouldn’t let them. Instead, he took them by the hand and kissed them.
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Quick answer
When people bow to Absalom, he raises them up and kisses them as equals. The gesture wins affection by appearing humble and approachable.
Overview
Absalom refuses the homage due a prince and instead embraces the common people, cultivating a sense of intimacy and favor. The studied warmth is a political performance designed to endear him to the masses. This counterfeit humility contrasts with the true humility of Christ, who genuinely lowers himself to serve rather than to seize power.
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Cross-references · 4
- 2 Sam 14:33So Joab came to the king, and told him; and when he had called for Absalom, he came to the king, and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king; and the king kissed Absalom.
- Ps 55:21His mouth was smooth as butter, but his heart was war. His words were softer than oil, yet they were drawn swords.
- Prov 26:25When his speech is charming, don’t believe him; for there are seven abominations in his heart.
- Ps 10:9–10He lurks in secret as a lion in his ambush. He lies in wait to catch the helpless. He catches the helpless, when he draws him in his net.
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