To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband.
Parallel translations
- WEB But to the married I command — not I, but the Lord — that the wife not leave her husband
- KJV And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
- NKJV Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
- NASB But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife is not to leave her husband
- NLT But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.
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Quick answer
To the married Paul gives the Lord's own command that a wife not separate from her husband. It matters because the permanence of marriage rests on Christ's clear teaching.
Overview
Here Paul appeals directly to a command of the Lord Jesus (cf. Mark 10:9): marriage is not to be dissolved, and a wife should not leave her husband. The stability of the marriage covenant reflects God's design from creation. Paul grounds this not in mere opinion but in the authoritative word of Christ.
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Cross-references · 11
- Matt 5:32But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, brings adultery upon her. And he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
- Luke 16:18Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
- Matt 19:3–9Then some Pharisees came and tested Him by asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?”
- Mal 2:14–16Yet you ask, “Why?” It is because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have broken faith, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.
- Mark 10:11–12So He told them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her.
- 1 Cor 7:15But if the unbeliever leaves, let him go. The believing brother or sister is not bound in such cases. God has called you to live in peace.
- Jer 3:20But as a woman may betray her husband, so you have betrayed Me, O house of Israel,” declares the LORD.
- 1 Cor 7:12To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If a brother has an unbelieving wife and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.
- 1 Cor 7:6I say this as a concession, not as a command.
- 1 Cor 7:25Now about virgins, I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy.
- 1 Cor 7:40In my judgment, however, she is happier if she remains as she is. And I think that I too have the Spirit of God.
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