I write not these things to shame you, but as my beloved sons I warn you.
Parallel translations
- WEB I don’t write these things to shame you, but to admonish you as my beloved children.
- BSB I am not writing this to shame you, but to warn you as my beloved children.
- NKJV I do not write these things to shame you, but as my beloved children I warn you.
- NASB I do not write these things to shame you, but to admonish you as my beloved children.
- NLT I am not writing these things to shame you, but to warn you as my beloved children.
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Quick answer
Paul clarifies that his sharp words aim not to humiliate but to lovingly correct the Corinthians as his children. It matters because faithful rebuke flows from a father's love.
Overview
After his pointed irony, Paul softens his tone, explaining his purpose is admonition, not shaming. He calls them his 'beloved children,' establishing the warm, paternal relationship that gives weight to his correction. This models how godly confrontation is grounded in genuine affection and a desire for the other's good, not in scoring points.
Cross-references & the web
Cross-references · 15
- 1 Th 2:11As ye know how we exhorted and comforted and charged every one of you, as a father doth his children,
- 3 Jn 1:4I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.
- 1 Cor 9:15But I have used none of these things: neither have I written these things, that it should be so done unto me: for it were better for me to die, than that any man should make my glorying void.
- 1 Cor 4:15For though ye have ten thousand instructors in Christ, yet have ye not many fathers: for in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the gospel.
- 2 Cor 12:19Again, think ye that we excuse ourselves unto you? we speak before God in Christ: but we do all things, dearly beloved, for your edifying.
- 1 Th 5:14Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men.
- Col 1:28Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus:
- 2 Cor 11:11Wherefore? because I love you not? God knoweth.
- 2 Cor 12:14–15Behold, the third time I am ready to come to you; and I will not be burdensome to you: for I seek not yours, but you: for the children ought not to lay up for the parents, but the parents for the children.
- 2 Cor 7:3I speak not this to condemn you: for I have said before, that ye are in our hearts to die and live with you.
- Ezek 3:21Nevertheless if thou warn the righteous man, that the righteous sin not, and he doth not sin, he shall surely live, because he is warned; also thou hast delivered thy soul.
- 1 Cor 15:34Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.
- 1 Cor 6:5I speak to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among you? no, not one that shall be able to judge between his brethren?
- Acts 20:31Therefore watch, and remember, that by the space of three years I ceased not to warn every one night and day with tears.
- 2 Cor 6:11–13O ye Corinthians, our mouth is open unto you, our heart is enlarged.
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